She was fine the Friday, sick Saturday and gone Sunday. His snoring even disturbs the children in their own rooms. And, active grieving will help you get ready to invite another dog or cat into your life. I felt like I … 5 min read. Reply . I have regretted it ever since the moment, and am not coping with life anymore. Oct. 7, 2015. One dog was fine, three is a bit much. We'd cracked house training and he only ever had a wee accident if he was left for a very long time … I have previously helped bring up a Westie, Basset Hound and Bulldog puppies so I have got experience of puppy behaviour, but I just can't cope with this. You might be feeling tired more often, be feeling emotional, and you might not want to do the things that you usually enjoy right now. Unlike everyone here I’m not going to tell you whether you should or shouldn’t end it all. It's 9 weeks old and its awful. I can't wear earplugs because I need to listen out for the children. It's now 3am and I still can't sleep. That is why many people are looking for a puppy to take … I put the whole thing out of my mind – until the next episode. That meant: I need help. 23 October 2013 I cant do this anymore, i have no motivation, depleated mentaly, always tired, my mind doesnt stop racing, I am diagnosed as depressed, i take 300mg of my medication a day, and somedays i go to 450mg, which numbs me down, but little less anxiuos, and feel clamer, I am … Here are a few options for finding your pet a new home. Whatever the reason for not wanting your dog anymore, please read through the suggestions in this article before deciding anything. I don't want to let go but I feel like maybe I'll have too, I'm not your priority and I guess I won't ever be. It’s a shame you don’t want your dog anymore, but sometimes it simply can’t be helped. It cries all the time, doesn't clean itself so stinks of poo, steps in its poo an walks it all over the house, flicks it up the walls. Active Member. Since then we have endured several surgeries and chemo … He gives a lot of company, love, and is considered as another member of the family; we who have dogs know it. However, there can be a darker side to the … It's just been all too much for me these last few weeks as my dog got … 13 years ago my mum got a dog and it was the best first dog that could ever be had. The Dog Trainer can’t give legal advice! I'm at the end of my tether, she had been so much better. I know how awful that sounds and I truly hate myself for feeling this way but I … He found himself becoming resentful and keeping her at an emotional distance. Can't cope with 16 year old son anymore. I miss you. My husband's first surgery to remove his tumor and kidney was over 5 years ago. It comes in different shapes and forms. Then, a few weeks after they had moved … I’m putting my energy in to finding him a good home here, he’s 9 years old and doesn’t deserve four plane rides and an uncertain … Mum can't cope with the dog anymore. ‘I can’t see as well anymore. Its really taking its toll on me. Posted on 01-10-2014 at 10.54PM . lily33. i cant cope with my dog anymore? I am a 33 year old caregiver to my husband who has stage IV kidney cancer. Samaritans are here to listen. A dog is an adorable creature that offers selfless love. So I started my PhD back in March and spent a total of around 3 hours in the university before being sent home for lockdown - I am in a UK university so things might be different here for some of you guys and girls around the world. hi can any 1 help my dog 14months old and she is a Rottweiler im really finding it hard to cope she never listen to me disobeys me to always jumps up at me and knocks me flying and today she went for me i thought she would stop trying this dominance i give her all the love a dog can have but she is just to hypo and cant do nothing … I had an online consultation with a student that might resonate with you. I had resisted saying that to myself for years. I used to see her beside me when I sleep and when I wake up she was there. I cry everyday. By Petful Aug 5, 2019 October 11, 2020. There’s an awful feeling that you might know. It was way too soon, I was … I have three Jack Russell Terrier pups, 7 weeks, and two 9 week olds. Why Can't My Dog Cope Anymore? I'm constantly cleaning up poo and trying to keep a toddler away from it. Rehoming a Dog with Behavior Problems. Try not … It’s been barely a week since you adopted little T … He should have had surgery on his nose but he refuses to. Posts: 27 Joined: Jun 2009 Jul 16, 2009 - 12:38 pm. I want to forget and forgive myself but it may take a long process. The best option: deliver the dog to the kennel; I can't have a pet anymore, what do I do? Joined: Mar 7, 2017 Messages: 4 Likes Received: 0. my pup is 6 months old and it's like he's gone backwards. - A Guide on Trigger Stacking. I absolutely can't stand my dogs anymore. But I will give you a thought. Photo: RandyDMM. I can’t do it on my own. I think I can't cope with my dogs, should I get rid of them? I am so very very sad right now. My husband went to the pub for a few drinks tonight, that makes it ten times worse! Many kids love their dogs very deeply and some may not even remember a time in their life when the dog … Downstairs in my house right now, there is … We’re planning a move back overseas next year and between our dog’s age, the anxiety he’s acquired from a dog attack three years ago and the $9,000 bill to move him overseas with no guarantee he’ll be the same dog on the other end – we can’t. This is ultimately your decision, and you already know what people will say so I’m just not going to insult you. When an episode ended, I felt great and could hardly believe I had ever been depressed. Forums / Depression / I cannot cope anymore. Once he collapsed going to the loo he was soo tired. Coping with your dog’s death in active ways is more difficult in the short run but much healthier in the long run. I don’t know what it is about the 72-hour mark, but it’s when a lot of people hit their breaking point. Know that this, too, shall pass. Thread starter AliW; Start date Nov 4, 2009; A. AliW Registered User. I know a lot of people will get upset reading this but I hate my cat. Bit it in 4 places, the dog has had to stay in the vets overnight and it's coating us nearly 400 pounds. Or at least it’s when they hit up Google for the answers and find my article. It The loss of the family dog may be your child’s first experience of death and your first opportunity to teach them about coping with the grief and pain that inevitably accompanies the joy of loving another living creature. Her dog was the perfect family pet, and she had never had any issues with him. Once … Hi just another person to tell you you're not alone! I've just had enough, can't cope with it. Adopting our dog Mayzie was my idea. I lost my dog fisher 2 months ago.he was almost 15 yrs old.I new the days were getting closer,I knew my heart would be beyond broken.he held on for quite some time and he was doing that knowing how hard it would be for me without him.the day to drove him to the vet,was torture just an ache I can’t describe.I layed down with him holding him as he took his last breath and he … I can't handle my dog anymore. Since last time mum has got steadily worse. I made a post about my boyfriends dog recently, about how he attacks me if I go near my boyfriend in front of him. Anonymous. Good evening, I'm hoping that someone may help as I'm at my wits end. Nov 4, 2009 #1 This is only my third post but I really need some help. While she was a total sweetheart, she also had issues that required time and patience to deal with. We've hardly spoken in the last few weeks. Allow yourself to feel empty, sad, and lonely. Do you think your life is meaningless and empty without your dog? My husband goes away a lot because he's in the armed forces, and I can't cope with being left alone with my two young sons. I'm so conflicted … Discussion in 'Dog Training and Behaviour' started by 123obbuddy, Mar 7, 2017. My husband worked from home so much of her care fell to him. I can't help but cry every time I remember my dog. 11/18/2013 at 11:35 AM. How Do I Live Without My Dog? I absolutely adore her but I can't cope with this anymore If your dog’s behavior problems make it impossible to keep her, you may face painful decisions, as my clients did. I fell in love with her at an adoption fair and talked my husband into adding her to our family. My oh is a pain in the ****! AFP/AFP/Getty Images . I see him in every corner of our house and I kept blaming myself for what happened. I can't even hug, touch, or be near my boyfriend without the dog intervening somehow. I can’t hear as well either.’ If you think your dog is starting to ignore you, you may actually find that he simply doesn’t hear you calling, or he can’t see the ball you threw in what you thought was plain sight. She explained that due to the lockdown, some family members had moved into her home, which included two young children. She is vicious towards me but will not stop barking if I leave her sight. There are many reasons why owners end up hating their puppies, and we look at the common puppy problems and how to cope with a new puppy... Having a new puppy in the house is generally predicted to be a happy time; full of endless fun, games, and cuddles - and for many this is true. Can't cope with my dog PLEASE HELP. How To Cope If You Love Animals But Can't Get One. I can't cope with it. I’ve found myself with the exact same problem. Can't Cope Anymore! My dog Molly was only 8 1/2 and I just lived with her, she was honestly the centre of my world and she got suddenly & critically sick and I somehow agreed to put her to sleep and cant believe I allowed it. Jan 25, 2009 3 0 Sheffield. He is such a heavy sleeper nothing will wake him. When I brush my teeth, she would usually ask me to brush hers too. Whereas they used to be indoor dogs, I now have them outside during the day and in the veranda (no access to other parts of the house) at night. I can't cope without you. 0 like. Struggling to cope with everyday life doesn’t look or feel the same in everyone. “I’ve had my dog three days and I can’t take it anymore.” A full half of all Puppy Help emails are from people who’ve had their dog for three days. So depressed . 123obbuddy PetForums Newbie. Even severe episodes eventually wound down, though it would usually take months to do so. Maybe you can't quite put your finger on it, but you’re not feeling okay. I normally live with a house mate who also shares the responsibility … It isn't improving, and I just had to storm out of a room because my boyfriend tried picking me up and the dog bit me once again. I am at my wits end. Topic: I cannot ... Sense13. I hope you find an answer to your dilemma OP, it’s a very hard position to be in. She slipped her harness today got her muzzle off and attacked another dog. He doesn't fall asleep standing up anymore. This has been going on for maybe a year, but it wasn't until recently he … By JR Thorpe. Anonymous. She laid down and looked at me afterwards. Social services have been great, we've had 3 visits a day for meals and they also prompted her meds. 5. We can’t generalise about how it'll make you feel or act. My relationship with my son has broken down so badly that I can't even bear to be in the same house as him anymore. If a sim dies in the forests, and no one's there to see it, did the sim really die? The reason was simple: I did get better. I can't cope with my PhD anymore - No Focus Hey guys - First time poster, long time lurker. Help - I hate my puppy - say many dog owners. I don't know what to do, I cannot cope with my 14 week Cockapoo puppy. I need someone to adopt my dog; I want get rid of my dog but I feel bad. I need a break, but don't know which way to turn. I feel AWFUL, but I snapped once I saw dog fur on my baby's hands and clothes. We also managed … I'm spiraling, I'm holding back the tears. We have 3 small children and have been married 11 years. Messages: 33 Likes Received: 25 Trophy Points: 38. He's old, old enough that he has a ton of trouble getting up on the tile floors downstairs and that he also has trouble starting his trips up and down the stairs. The reason I got them was not because I particularly wanted a dog but because I felt sorry for them (there conditions were appauling). Often, owners don’t notice the signs that a dog is losing his sight or hearing until the loss is severe. 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